A courtship ideally ends up in a marriage and hopefully a happy one.
In Malaysia the divorce rate is high and I believe this trend is similar in most developed nations.
“The number of divorces in Malaysia has more than doubled in just eight years from 2004. In 2012, a whopping 56,760 divorces were recorded, which is equivalent to a marriage breaking down every 10 minutes.”
Many who are still together are together for reasons other than affection.
There are many external factors that could affect the relationship but this is, I believe is not the main factor that could cause it. It is usually the internal factors. Internal factors of character as well as Destiny.
Our Destiny is made of largely 2 parts. One is alterable, the other may not be easily changed but if we know in advance, we have the time to make that change. Time is important in life. If we have time, many things can be fixed or altered but however if time available is too short, well it may be too late.
So why couples who started off as love birds in the end got a sad ending to their relationship?
One case that we read during a recent tutorial has evidence that these potential problems can be read from the two persons charts. Both are Bing Day Master born in the same year of Geng Zi!
As you can see, both of their charts have a lot of similarity but largely the elements are placed differently. This is also known as positioning which one learn at the intermediate level. Different position creates different results.
If they have knew about their Bazi then this problem could have been avoided if not minimized.
We can see that how these two person before marriage has many things in common and after marriage how things will start to drift apart.
Why is this happening? Well, there are a few reasons. One is the time has not arrived because during courting they were lovers only and thus the marriage palace is not active at that time. Once they get married, this palace is activated and with the arrival of the luck cycle, then kaboom, the issues will start!
The million dollar question I know you will ask is, “Can they over come this?” . Of course they can but only if they know about it long ago! Remember that I just mentioned above about TIME!
Thus as a destiny consultant, we have to caution our clients of the potential issues and advice them accordingly. We are not there to intervene with their Destiny as they need to act upon it. A Destiny Consultant is merely a messenger.
Also, this is where learning BaZi can help us plan our life better by informing us the potential problems. Even if we cannot change it at least we are well aware and are emotionally prepared.
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8 thoughts on “Relationship And Marriage”
Hi, me and my boyfriend have almost similar chart. Can you please tell me if there is danger in our relationship? Will we drift away if we got married? Is there any danger here?
I was born 1989.05.12
He was born 1989.11.08
Without the hour it cannot be said as same. You can get a professional reading if you know your hour of birth.
Next year is the Yang Water tiger! Or is it best for me, not to have a baby under this year?
Please answer this. Is it true that i have an academic star? and if so, can i give birth to a baby under this sign?
Lets say my academic is the tiger and if i give birth to a baby in the year of the tiger, would that be good for me? According to my 10 year luck pillar, i am in my yang water, and my daymaster is yang water. Am i getting this rigth? I am planning baby nr 2☺️❤️ Thank you. 🙏
Not read this way. It all depends on your Bazi as well as Baby Bazi if you both will have affinity with each other. BaZi can indicate baby in certain years but it may not tell if that year will produce a good baby.
Is it depending on the day the baby will get born? I read that for each month a person is born, they have a compatability animal sign. Other than their year animal. So to get straigth, I am a snake year, born may with a compatability sign of the monkey. Now, i am thinking, this baby could be born october next year, 2022. That will have the same compatability as I, how would you read that?
that is another school of thought that uses the old astrology system that reads only the zodiac pillar a.k.a. Year pillar. someday i can blog with example to address this question.
Can my bazi tell, which year it is indicating, for me to have a baby?
If so, Please tell me when. 😁☺️🙏,