The name Jeff Bezos is synonymous with Amazon.com. Just this year of the Earth Dog or Wu Xu the biggest news is about the couple going for a divorce. The couple, Jeff and Mackenzie came a long way, to be exact 25 years of marriage. You can call it a Silver Jubilee.
According to the Forbes.com, I qoute here :
Bezos, worth an estimated $136.2 billion, is the richest person in the world. It is not yet clear how the divorce will impact his net worth, or whether it will affect his stake in Amazon, the e-commerce giant he founded in 1994.
The couple had an interesting start on how they met and got married. They were married in 1993, after meeting at D.E. Shaw & Co. Shortly afterward they relocated to Seattle to found Amazon, where MacKenzie Bezos was an early employee.
And the very reason he fell in love with her was once he qouted “All day long I listened to that fabulous laugh,” he told Vogue. “How could you not fall in love with that laugh?”
Why Marriage Fails?
The one thing that attracted him was, Jeff said, he knew from the beginning that he wanted to marry a resourceful person. Can we see a resourceful person from their destiny chart? We shall watch the video later.
Apparently, it was MacKenzie who made the first move and asked Jeff out to lunch. They were engaged within three months and married within six. Amazingly quick I would say, isn’t it?
Is marriage and separation a destined thing or purely a human decision? One of the best tool to decipher a person’s destiny is what we call the 8 Character or Bazi Astrology. Let’s watch the video to see if there were any possibilities revealed in their Bazi Chart.
What element causes a person to be suspicious? Most would probably say the Pian Yin 偏印 or Alternative Stamp or Indirect Resource to some schools of Bazi. Is this always true?
Beyond Pian Yin 偏印
Suspicion ruins a relationship whether it’s between a couple, partners, friends or even at work, just like this song.
If you have a strong suspicions character, be mindful that it’s alright to feel uncomfortable trying to be trusting. If your spouse has a strong suspicion, then life could be rather doubtful. Years gone by will slowly put a strain on the relationship.
Why do ancient Chinese parents wants to read the Bazi of their future son or daughter in law and match it to their children? This is because they believe that being foretold is to prevent simply because human is actionable being and not a tree. While we may not able about everything, we can certainly minimize the impact of the problems.
Marriage is a very important decision in one’s life. In Chinese philosophy, there is a saying:
Meeting the Wrong Person at the Wrong time brings Disaster.
Meeting the Right Person at the Wrong time brings Regret. Meeting the Wrong Person at the Right time brings Pain and Sadness.
Meeting the Right Person at the Right time is called Happy & Fulfilling Life.
Many people are suffering in silence after years in marriage and seeking family counseling, some go for religious counseling, some turn to radio programs to vent their frustrations and of course friends and Bazi Consultant too are not spared.
Thus you can imagine the impact of that decision. In the spur of the moment one proposes a marriage or to say “Yes!” changes the course of one’s life. This is precisely in the ideology of Bazi can never be 100% accurate especially when reading on the subject of marriage. The other part of the answer actually lies in your future partner’s Bazi.
One may marry a rich husband but he is a bully! While you may read from your Bazi that you will have a rich husband, what’s the point since you have not known that he is actually a bully!
One also may wonder, before marriage he was a nicest man on earth but now he is a different person. That is because in Bazi there are 3 ways to tell the quality of the spouse. The 2 most commonly known method are the Spouse Palace and the Direct Officer.
This is a Chart of women who married a husband and found out later that he was only after her money. In BaZi Astrology this can be seen from her chart. If she has already known about it way before marriage, perhaps it would be other options that she could have chosen.
While the actions may not fully avoid this type of husband since emotions does run high when one is in love 😍, sometimes even with early warning one still chooses to thread the path.
I received an Bazi Course promotion sometime back and in that article, it tells about how to find out if the spouse has potential of playing infidelity. It says…
Lots of Indirect Wealth (for men) / 7 Killings (for ladies)elements in the chart.
Having lots of Peach Blossom stars – Peach blossom stars are the 子，午，卯，酉。
A clash in the Spouse palace.
Has many output elements, good likability factor that creates opportunity for infidelity. – Usually they say this has got to do with Hurting Officer 伤官or Eating God 食神。
Britney Spears allegedly cheated on Justin Timberlake, according to an ex of hers unfortunately named Jason Alexander (not *that* Jason Alexander). She was previously accused of cheating on Timberlake, who was probably just too awesome and well-adjusted for her, with her choreographer at the time Wade Robson.
Britney was born on 2 December 1981 in the hour of Chou,
A courtship ideally ends up in a marriage and hopefully a happy one.
In Malaysia the divorce rate is high and I believe this trend is similar in most developed nations.
“The number of divorces in Malaysia has more than doubled in just eight years from 2004. In 2012, a whopping 56,760 divorces were recorded, which is equivalent to a marriage breaking down every 10 minutes.”
Many who are still together are together for reasons other than affection.
There are many external factors that could affect the relationship but this is, I believe is not the main factor that could cause it. It is usually the internal factors. Internal factors of character as well as Destiny.
A beautiful Actress who father died shortly after she was born. She grew up with the mother and sisters.
In her 15 year major luck cycle of Bing Chen 丙辰 she got into singing and acting school and her career progressed.
She got involved with the son of a rich tycoon surnamed Li in Hong Kong. She had gave birth to first son in 2009 & then a twins in 2010 with him but the father did not wanted to admit her into the family thus they stayed unmarried. She separated with this boyfriend in 2011. All these happened within the luck cycle of Bing Chen 丙辰.
The question is why she could not get into a rich man’s family or could not gained the recognition?. Is this due to the mean Father in law or it was a case of her own Bazi, a story foretold when she was born.
All these have or was written in her BaZi chart, she merely acted upon the destiny flow.
Some years ago when a famous Bazi school in Malaysia published a book about relationship compatibility, I have told my students that some of the theory did not hold when they asked me about it. The consequence of reading the book can lead to a faulty decision in choosing a life partner believing that it is the better partner for life.
The theory states that a combo between Day Master is good or compatible life partner. For example a Ding lady day master can match with a Ren boyfriend since Ren + Ding relationship is known as 6 combination. In Chinese, it is called Liu He. He, 合 means a fusion or getting together.
Charles and Camilia were lovers. They had knew each other since young, way before Diana came into the picture. However, Queen E was not in favour of their relationship because she was married to a British Army Officer. It was well known. So Camilia was heartbroken. Charles never forgotten her and they renewed their courtship after the demise of Diana in a freak accident.
Today I am not going to dwell into their 3 party relationship as this is more suitable for a class discussion. I prefer to bust some myth for the benefit of the public.
Taylor Swift is a ten-time GRAMMY winner, the youngest recipient in history of the music industry’s highest honor, the GRAMMY Award for Album of the Year and she is the only female in the history of The Grammy’s to win Album of the Year, twice. Taylor is the only artist in history to have an album hit the 1 million first-week sales figure three times (2010’s SpeakNow, 2012’s RED and 2014’s 1989). She’s a household name whose insanely catchy yet deeply personal self-penned songs transcend music genres, and a savvy businesswoman who has built a childhood dream into an empire.
Taylor Swift started off her career at a very young age of 14 in country music up to about 2008 before she made a switch to pop music and continue her route to fame. One of her major influences in her love for music was her maternal grandmother. She has always listened to her grandmother singing in church.
She is not only as singer but also known for her talent as a song writer.
Here is nicely done up chart of her past relationships.
After her break up with Harry Styles now it is rumored to be Ed Sheeran! Ed is Mr. Eleven and hopefully the last.
If you would like to know more about your love life or relationship, look no further than your own Bazi destiny chart which is derived from your birth date and time. It holds the key to finding Mr Right and Ms Right. Or if you have already tied the knot, are you happily married or otherwise? What does your Bazi destiny chart say?
First, we look at the quality of the SpouseStar. For a man, we look at the Wealth star as this represents the wife and girlfriends. For a female, we look at the quality of the Influence/Power star as these stars represent the husband and boyfriends. If the spouse star is of good quality and is favourable to the Day Master, we can conclude that he or she can easily find somebody, especially if the spouse star is located at the Stem next to the Day Master, or Day Branch, and the relationship will generally be good.
Secondly, the Spouse Palace plays a very important part in determining the relationship with the spouse. If the “Useful God” or “Noble Element” is in the spouse palace, we can say that the person will receive support from his/her spouse and will get a lucky house when the time is right. He/She will becomes lucky once married and will enjoy good marriage and the spouse will generally be good and supportive. However, the Spouse Palace should NOT have clash or combination, otherwise there will be relationship problems.
Many skeptics of astrology often asked the question, Is our life path defined at birth?
Can a Bazi tell if one will marry a older guy?. Sally Yeh 葉蒨文 and George Lam are 14 years apart and it is Sally’s first marriage. In a TV interview one can see that she is a down to earth type when it comes to marriage. She is traditional when it comes to picking a life partner.
There are many ways to access one’s BaZi and the more common one is the 10 Gods and Palace. There are of course the other dimensions to it. The present of Yin (寅) does tell us that she has down to earth point of view when it comes to marriage matters.