A courtship ideally ends up in a marriage and hopefully a happy one.
In Malaysia the divorce rate is high and I believe this trend is similar in most developed nations.
“The number of divorces in Malaysia has more than doubled in just eight years from 2004. In 2012, a whopping 56,760 divorces were recorded, which is equivalent to a marriage breaking down every 10 minutes.”
Many who are still together are together for reasons other than affection.
There are many external factors that could affect the relationship but this is, I believe is not the main factor that could cause it. It is usually the internal factors. Internal factors of character as well as Destiny.
I was having a discussion with a fellow practitioner on the subject “How to gain the most out of Astrology consulting?” may it be Bazi, Purple Star or even palmistry. The one point he brought was very interesting.
If we stop to think and ask ourselves why will you want to consult a destiny analyst, I believe the ultimate goal is to know how to improve our lives or destiny although I know a big pool of people who just want to know their destiny outcome out of curiosity. Questions like Will they be rich, will they be the next CEO, will they have a good marriage etc at the back of their head while improving destiny is lesser importance in this category of people’s mind.
Then there are the escapist who just cannot accept their destiny and goes on to find a astrologist or destiny consultant who will tell them what they have long to hear. Sadly but these numbers in this category of people is also quite significant.
Broadly there are 2 major approach to destiny analysis. Let’s discuss them in turn beginning with the current trend.
A beautiful Actress who father died shortly after she was born. She grew up with the mother and sisters.
In her 15 year major luck cycle of Bing Chen 丙辰 she got into singing and acting school and her career progressed.
She got involved with the son of a rich tycoon surnamed Li in Hong Kong. She had gave birth to first son in 2009 & then a twins in 2010 with him but the father did not wanted to admit her into the family thus they stayed unmarried. She separated with this boyfriend in 2011. All these happened within the luck cycle of Bing Chen 丙辰.
The question is why she could not get into a rich man’s family or could not gained the recognition?. Is this due to the mean Father in law or it was a case of her own Bazi, a story foretold when she was born.
All these have or was written in her BaZi chart, she merely acted upon the destiny flow.
Some years ago when a famous Bazi school in Malaysia published a book about relationship compatibility, I have told my students that some of the theory did not hold when they asked me about it. The consequence of reading the book can lead to a faulty decision in choosing a life partner believing that it is the better partner for life.
The theory states that a combo between Day Master is good or compatible life partner. For example a Ding lady day master can match with a Ren boyfriend since Ren + Ding relationship is known as 6 combination. In Chinese, it is called Liu He. He, 合 means a fusion or getting together.
Charles and Camilia were lovers. They had knew each other since young, way before Diana came into the picture. However, Queen E was not in favour of their relationship because she was married to a British Army Officer. It was well known. So Camilia was heartbroken. Charles never forgotten her and they renewed their courtship after the demise of Diana in a freak accident.
Today I am not going to dwell into their 3 party relationship as this is more suitable for a class discussion. I prefer to bust some myth for the benefit of the public.
A client came to me early this year before Chinese New Year to ask about his yearly luck or annual forecast. I told him his authority (translated as Officer) is going to be challenged.
He told me then that he is in the process of selling his shares in his company to a new investor and shall remain in the company for 2 years as part of the package to ensure a smoother transition.
A mother was lamenting to me about the her current predicament about all her daughters rebelling with her and it all happened during this year. It’s just too much to bear for a mother who had dedicated her life to upbringing her daughters. Now its like a sand storm situation in her home.
Today, all her daughters are doing well both in relationship as well as career. I have to say that she has done well as a mother in not only upbringing the girls but also fed them well and educated them well. As a result of her prudence, the girls have started out in life way better than most average kids, including me. They have not need to suffer the “inconvenience” as I did. I wished too I have a mother like her. Haha…
To add salt to the wound, the husband who just recently returned from a long overseas assignment, brought about more stress to her.
Of course it is painful to experience when not one but all girls are cohesively got together to go against the mother just for a small reason. Trust me it’s really a small matter blown out of proportion case. I can really feel her disappointment.
After lending her my ears, it suddenly came to my senses, hey, lets take a peep at her Bazi. Here is her Bazi:
This is an old classic management question that most management student will probably be asked in their examinations.
What is my Bazi Astrology view on this?
When we examine a Bazi we are able to tell their potential in life from the virtue of the Bazi Chart. So in some way some are pretty fated. You may cross examine back Obama and Trump or Richard Branson chart.
Since the Bazi chart is able to foretell a person’s potential, we say this person is fated to be rich or powerful or the marriage is going to be good or otherwise.
If we conclude in such manner, thus the answer is very clear that Leaders are Born!. That is a mandate of Heaven (天)
This is clearly mentioned in Di Tian Sui 滴天髓, the ancient classics of Bazi Astrology. It is known as Tian Dao (天道)
Donald Trump was born 14 June 1946 during the Si 巳 Hour or Snake hour and thus his 4 pillars of destiny or Bazi is shown below.
Natal Chart of Donald Trump
Bazi destiny reading is divided into 3 major parts. They are namely the Natal Chart, the Major Luck and the Minor Luck or sometimes commonly known as annual lucks. To any person, the most influential of the 3 is of course the Natal Chart followed by the Major Luck cycle. Major luck cycle changes every 10 years but to different people, it begins at different times of their lives. Some may start the luck at the age of 2 while some at the age of 9 for example.
Looking at the history of Donald Trump’s road to White House, he started to have this idea as early as 1988 but it becomes more evident in and around 2009. However, he dropped the idea during the 44th Presidential election (2011) but decided to pursue it this round.
Could it be that he thought he had better chance against Hillary over Obama? Well we can only guess what is in his mind.
Major Luck Cycle
The question is why in this 45th presidential election that he is so confident to enter the race to be the president? There could be many other reasons for that but let’s look at the Chinese astrology point of view or Bazi point of view and what it can offer.
In 2013, he is already into the major luck of Xin Chou 辛丑. So is Xin Chou better than the previous luck of Geng Zi 庚子 ?
To understand this, first we have to understand his Natal Chart.
Donald Trump Natal Chart
He is a Ji 己 earth day master and a pretty strong one too. His chart has no water element at all. Water element is Wealth to Donald. Thus many practitioners and students of BaZi is pretty puzzled over his chart that a person without water (wealth) element in the chart can be a Billionaire!
So how does it goes about? Well some practitioners classify his as Thriving Chart. A Thriving Chart is supposed to be without Officer. They say this is the case because they rationale that the Officer element of Jia 甲 is combined with the Day Master Ji 己 and has transformed. Firstly this is not really correct because the Day Master cannot be transformed away.
Here is a BaZi chart of a young man named PJ. Many students of BaZi will it difficult to start reading a BaZi. Why?
After all the books and study, the big questions now is how do we apply into reading? This is always the most frustrating part of Bazi reading and also the reason why many gave up reading. “Better to pay someone to read and later I can ask some technical questions” is usually at the back of their mind.
Well it doesn’t work this way because there are many schools of Bazi Astrology, my dear! You may end up more confused.
HOUR DAY MONTH YEAR
– 丁 乙. 甲
– 未. 亥. 子
The, a little more senior would first try to read the Ding 丁 Fire Day Master, try to figure out if he is strong or a weak Day Master. Then they will probably see, if the Day Master is strong, then his favourable elements will be Output (Eating God or Hurting Officer) and Wealth (Direct or Indirect Wealth). If the Day master is classified as Weak or called a Weak Day Master, then the favourable element will be Resource or Parallel (Friends or Rob Wealth). Officer will somehow be dependent if it is to be classified as favourable or otherwise.
Taylor Swift is a ten-time GRAMMY winner, the youngest recipient in history of the music industry’s highest honor, the GRAMMY Award for Album of the Year and she is the only female in the history of The Grammy’s to win Album of the Year, twice. Taylor is the only artist in history to have an album hit the 1 million first-week sales figure three times (2010’s SpeakNow, 2012’s RED and 2014’s 1989). She’s a household name whose insanely catchy yet deeply personal self-penned songs transcend music genres, and a savvy businesswoman who has built a childhood dream into an empire.
Taylor Swift started off her career at a very young age of 14 in country music up to about 2008 before she made a switch to pop music and continue her route to fame. One of her major influences in her love for music was her maternal grandmother. She has always listened to her grandmother singing in church.
She is not only as singer but also known for her talent as a song writer.
Here is nicely done up chart of her past relationships.
After her break up with Harry Styles now it is rumored to be Ed Sheeran! Ed is Mr. Eleven and hopefully the last.
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