It is end of 2021 already although still not the last month of Ox year. Looking back, 2021 has been for Malaysia a pretty disruptive year with 3 months of lock down on top of the many months we were not allowed to travel outside our own districts. This is naturally very disruptive for business as well as people’s life in general.
Nonetheless, it was a time where many got a chance to learn Bazi and also a time when I started to teach online so many more are able to join to learn the Nature’s way of Bazi. Looking back the last 2 years I felt it was a blessing because many others get to learn the correct way of understanding Bazi and it is reflected on the Testimonials.
I cannot emphasize enough the importance of learning bazi even more and above qi men dun jia. The ancients have always said, First is DESTINY, Second is LUCK CYCLE, Third is Feng Shui, etc. Destiny and Luck cycle is derived from BaZi.
Coming to terms with our Bazi is one of the best tool to improve life and be realistic about it. This is the concept but to arrive at the right answer, it depends on the Bazi system that you use!. Yes you hear me right, there are many Bazi systems and they are not the same!
Today I want to use one of Malaysia’s born icon as an example to demonstrate a little of Bazi.
She is Michelle Yeoh. She was born in the town of Ipoh in 1962 and the father was a politician as well as a business man. Who would have taught she would become and international star as well receive titles such as Tan Sri from the Agong? (King of Malaysia).
Since the introduction of the internet, people are now more connected than ever before. In the past, a letter may take weeks or months to reach another person in another country. Today, it only require mere seconds. In the past, Chinese Metaphysics is a “recluse” learning subject but with advancement of internet and technology, it is now becoming more accessible to the public. People are able to converse, discuss and “spar” online on any subject and in this particular instance destiny reading / Bazi subject.
Of interest of today’s article is a Bazi chart below that has appeared under different pseudo names in different forums for at least the last 18 months.
From what can be gathered through the communications on the forums, the owner of this chart is a student of a World renown Chinese Metaphysics teacher / grand master. Since completing the course, it appears to me he is still attempting to seek guidance to determine if his chart is a special chart. In addition to that, historical forum threads indicated he has been attempting to understand why his career, marriage and wealth prospects are average. Despite various analysis by forum experts, I don’t believe to date that anyone have answered the owner’s questions to his satisfaction and his quest continues. I can relate to his frustration as Bazi study can be a frustrating exercise but yet satisfying when you able to get it right.
The name Jeff Bezos is synonymous with Amazon.com. Just this year of the Earth Dog or Wu Xu the biggest news is about the couple going for a divorce. The couple, Jeff and Mackenzie came a long way, to be exact 25 years of marriage. You can call it a Silver Jubilee.
According to the Forbes.com, I qoute here :
Bezos, worth an estimated $136.2 billion, is the richest person in the world. It is not yet clear how the divorce will impact his net worth, or whether it will affect his stake in Amazon, the e-commerce giant he founded in 1994.
The couple had an interesting start on how they met and got married. They were married in 1993, after meeting at D.E. Shaw & Co. Shortly afterward they relocated to Seattle to found Amazon, where MacKenzie Bezos was an early employee.
And the very reason he fell in love with her was once he qouted “All day long I listened to that fabulous laugh,” he told Vogue. “How could you not fall in love with that laugh?”
Why Marriage Fails?
The one thing that attracted him was, Jeff said, he knew from the beginning that he wanted to marry a resourceful person. Can we see a resourceful person from their destiny chart? We shall watch the video later.
Apparently, it was MacKenzie who made the first move and asked Jeff out to lunch. They were engaged within three months and married within six. Amazingly quick I would say, isn’t it?
Is marriage and separation a destined thing or purely a human decision? One of the best tool to decipher a person’s destiny is what we call the 8 Character or Bazi Astrology. Let’s watch the video to see if there were any possibilities revealed in their Bazi Chart.
What element causes a person to be suspicious? Most would probably say the Pian Yin 偏印 or Alternative Stamp or Indirect Resource to some schools of Bazi. Is this always true?
Beyond Pian Yin 偏印
Suspicion ruins a relationship whether it’s between a couple, partners, friends or even at work, just like this song.
If you have a strong suspicions character, be mindful that it’s alright to feel uncomfortable trying to be trusting. If your spouse has a strong suspicion, then life could be rather doubtful. Years gone by will slowly put a strain on the relationship.
Why do ancient Chinese parents wants to read the Bazi of their future son or daughter in law and match it to their children? This is because they believe that being foretold is to prevent simply because human is actionable being and not a tree. While we may not able about everything, we can certainly minimize the impact of the problems.
Marriage is a very important decision in one’s life. In Chinese philosophy, there is a saying:
Meeting the Wrong Person at the Wrong time brings Disaster.
Meeting the Right Person at the Wrong time brings Regret. Meeting the Wrong Person at the Right time brings Pain and Sadness.
Meeting the Right Person at the Right time is called Happy & Fulfilling Life.
Many people are suffering in silence after years in marriage and seeking family counseling, some go for religious counseling, some turn to radio programs to vent their frustrations and of course friends and Bazi Consultant too are not spared.
Thus you can imagine the impact of that decision. In the spur of the moment one proposes a marriage or to say “Yes!” changes the course of one’s life. This is precisely in the ideology of Bazi can never be 100% accurate especially when reading on the subject of marriage. The other part of the answer actually lies in your future partner’s Bazi.
One may marry a rich husband but he is a bully! While you may read from your Bazi that you will have a rich husband, what’s the point since you have not known that he is actually a bully!
One also may wonder, before marriage he was a nicest man on earth but now he is a different person. That is because in Bazi there are 3 ways to tell the quality of the spouse. The 2 most commonly known method are the Spouse Palace and the Direct Officer.
This is a Chart of women who married a husband and found out later that he was only after her money. In BaZi Astrology this can be seen from her chart. If she has already known about it way before marriage, perhaps it would be other options that she could have chosen.
While the actions may not fully avoid this type of husband since emotions does run high when one is in love 😍, sometimes even with early warning one still chooses to thread the path.